You're cool, you're calm, you're comfortable with delegation. In fact, you don't care to see anything about meetings other than what's in your calendar. If this describes your feelings about meeting invitations and updates, you'll want to know about the option to have meeting requests and responses sent only to your delegate. On the Delegates tab in the Options dialog box, check the box that says My delegates only. You can make this choice when adding a delegate, or you can get to this tab later, if you want, by clicking Options on the Tools menu.